podcast-snap-out-of-it
Stephane Dadjo: [00:00:00] I see many people walking around feeling so vulnerable and sorry about, and sorry about themselves, and they expect everybody else to walk on eggshells whenever they're around them. But let me break this to you. Everyone at some point has something that they have to go through or figure out in their lives, but you know what?
If everyone had chosen to let their weakness being normalized by society and not do anything about it, it would be a mess out. It will be a mess. You to grow and if you wanna grow, you need to work on yourself. And it's, it's just as simple as that. Now, what I'm about to say might come a little bit harsh on some people, but so many people are blaming societies, blaming others for not being able to handle themselves mentally.
But at the end of the day, as much as. The outside world has something to do. You get to choose and decide for yourself as well, unless you are mentally unable to decide for yourself. Believe me, the power is in your hands. If you want to grow, if you want [00:01:00] to grow thicker skin, if you wanna grow stronger physically, spiritually, or mentally, the choice is in your hands.
And if you can do that, why not? I mean, many people have become so lazy, you know, to work on themselves and instead they want other people to adjust to their behavior. They are the ones organizing P parties every now and then and expect people to show up. But guess what? Personally, I don't show up to P parties cause nothing good comes out of that.
And also, furthermore, by stepping or by by giving into beauty parties, we tend to enable people in their behaviors. We tend to enable people in that. Let's start calling things out for what they are. Let's start calling. Let's start calling people out on their bullshit and let's start telling people what they need to hear rather than what they want to hear.
Cause that's what's going on these days. So many people are after what they want rather than what they need.